Should I Go?
Question by angel lady linda: should i go?
i had a roommate. we became intimate. he moved to florida. he visited, i got pregnant. it may not be his, he knows. he asked me to go to florida with him even if it’s not his. I said no. i have a daughter 14. doesn’t like him, and is depending on me to move into another area in ohio for schooling. she just moved back in with me 1 year ago. the baby was born in December. he’s beautiful he looks like him. not sure though. everyday for 1 year i have thought of him. i crave him. i miss him inside me so much. my dad called him, i was to afraid. he called back. he sounded nervous,excited, i could tell he still felt the same for me. he said,”When are you coming to florida?” i want to. But, my daughter won’t. her father won’t let her. My dad is old, and i want him to enjoy his grandson. But, i want my son to know his dad. If he is? I have an x-boyfriend who said he would be the father figure. But, we fight, he does crack. i don’t want him around when he’s high. the guy in florida smoke’s pot
he drinks too.but, we click. he’s a hard worker. he’s fun, i can talk to him, i love being near him., sex is great. i think he’d make a good dad to my daughter. And my son could possiblely have a dad. finances are tough, anything happens to my dad and i am in trouble. no backups, no one to help me. But, Jeff(in florida) doesn’t love me. He loves me but, isn’t in love with me. He doesn’t know if he wants to ever get married to me. He isn’t attracted to my weight! i am size 20. he is fit. he wants me to get down to a size 8! I feel intimitated that he doesn’t want me and i’ve been with too many men who didn’t love me for me. Should i take the chance?
Best answer:
Answer by Brooke <33
i think he should visit you u shudnt visit him u have a family and trying to get ur life on track so you should stay in ohio and if he doesnt want to come up to see u he doesnt really wanna meat his son ( if it is ) so just stay and raise you family and have him come to u
Answer by David T
Let’s see … one does crack, the other smokes weed.
I would drop them both because you don’t need to spend any time in jail for possession. Guilty by association is an ugly thing.
I’m sure there are a lot of nice guys around Ohio who don’t do drugs and would be just as good a father, if not better.
You need to do some real soul searching rather than following your heart on this one. If your daughter doesn’t like the guy in Florida listen to her concerns. She may have a lot of validity to her reasoning.